Although all of us know the existence of bisexual, and the opinion of bisexual has been changing,if you find your husband is bisexual,what should you do?
More than one of my friends told me they are bisexual, but their wife don't know. When I heard this, sometimes, I would say that you should tell your wife, because it is the most basic respect for your wife. But now, I have some hesitation. Before I ignored the emotion are different from the other things, I do not have the scene, I can not really understand.
Many people afraid of the laugh of other people, hide themselves as bisexual, and select marriage with the other sex. Or someone find they are bisexual when they married a long time, on the one hand they can't accept it, they thought theirself were a monster, they were afraid very much,how could they tell their wife? when they finally accept it, they also can't tell their wife. Why? They wives are also ordinary people, they may can not accept it, they are love their husband very much.
So what should you do when you find your husband is bisexual? If you love your husband, the first, we shouldn't be angry, the we should tell our husband at a right time that we are couple, and we should go together no matter what things happen.If he still don't tell you, you also shouldn't be angry, everything needs some time to change,right? we should believe in them. Actually they take a lot of pain that we don't know, and the only thing we need to do is understand them.
If you someday look your husband is very close to a man in the street, please don't fight with him, he just need some of love of the man, because he is bisexual!
Now,what do you thinks happen when lesbian meets bisexual?
Toya is a lady, a lesbian, and she just like beautiful girls. Zena also is a lady, but she is a bisexual.Zena love both beautiful girls and muscle man.
The day,they were meeting,and they attracted each other. Why? The reason was that both of them are beautiful.
As you can imagine, they started dating, gone shopping together, gone to the movies, eaten the food they like. Even Zena moved to Toya's home, and they lived together.
It seems that everything is perfect. But one day, Toya found Zena was always staring at the handsome man. Toya first thought she could bear it,after all Toya very love Zena . However,the day after day, Zena is still the case, even when she found Zena kissed some men when she didn't here. Zena is a bisexual!!!!Toya was so angry and cann't bear anymore! They had a fight, and then they are broke up. Zena gone, and never go back!
Lesbian is someone who is sexually attracted to persons of the same sex.Bisexual is a person who is sexually attracted to both sexes. There is a lot of misunderstanding between lesbian and bisexual. The lesbian cann't bear the existence of bisexual. they cann't accept the person who love women, at the same time love men, no matter how loving the one!
Whether lesbian or bisexual, they both have the right to pursue happiness.
All along, bisexual groups labeled by the public too much Tags: alien, neuropathy, AIDS, sissy, lust, promiscuity ...... these pejorative and discriminatory judgment mercilessly their big barrier in society inlet flow. Thus, the group began to be excluded, isolated, gradually enveloped the veil of mystery, in public unfamiliar areas, to build their world exclusive.
Their world, bisexual love become a natural thing. Meet man and man, woman and woman, man and woman, acquaintance, friend, love, as they will be like an ordinary couple, holding hands, hugging, kissing, love, in their eyes, everything is so natural and doubt ʱ?? That is our greatest ambiguity lies with them, because we will never be able to imagine yourself at the same time a man and a woman holding hands, hugging, kissing, and even sex,that will make people feel unreasonable.Indeed, when we used to look at their own vision of the world, really I feel weird, confused emotion: why they can produce feelings? Why are they able to make that move ambiguous? However, when we change the angle, try to use their eyes to look at their world, everything seems to have solved the problem, or, once we worried the problem is not a problem. If you ask why the man and woman can have feelings? Why do men and women can hold hands, hug, kiss, or even sex? A reason. They told us just different sexual orientation, and nothing more.
In fact, many bisexuals no different with the ordinary people around us, they did not wear earrings, no tattoos, no wear rings, nor fancy dress, behavioral quirks, even if you see them, nor will their faces with double gay linked. Their life is also very common. They told a lot of people are living a life of three-point line, and perhaps they are one of your colleagues, with your a good student, and perhaps one of your relatives and a friend.Just as we teach this course for homosexuals, in our case, in the classroom, they are just an ordinary teacher. Because they do not understand the world, so we will feel them apart. In fact, except for the sexual orientation of this standard, they told us there is no difference, is that we will mystify them too, to portray them too much color, too much personal ideology imposed.
To me, I can do is when people tell me that he is bisexual, I give to him sincere encouragement and blessing, when people around to make comments bisexual, I can say recognition and support of their own point of view, to try to reverse opposition calls for rights of way cleared a little obstacle. No one is perfect, not to mention bisexuals are not a disadvantage, then why do we use their own criteria to judge them, wearing tinted glasses to look at them? In fact, they are just ordinary people, but we are ordinary people, after all, we are a class of people.
